class=”article-detail__title article-detail__title–speakable”>RHONY's Jill Zarin Reflects on the Lessons She's Learned Since Bobby Zarin's DeathFormer Real Housewives of New York star Jill Zarin shared an emotional Instagram post about the death of her husband Bobby Zarin. By Kaitlin Reilly Jan 13, 2021 6:10 PMTagsThe Real Housewives Of New York CityJill ZarinCelebritiesWatch: Bobby Zarin Reveals Cancer Has SpreadReal Housewives of New York alum Jill Zarin penned an emotional Instagram post on the third anniversary of her husband Bobby Zarin's death. Lol.)" She also spoke of her "wonderful boyfriend," Gary Brody, who she began dating in 2018. You feel me. "Today I mourn my soul mate Bobby Zarin, who lives through me every day," she began. On Jan. you would be so proud of me.. In the caption, she wrote a sweet note to Bobby that reflected on the little things she's learned from him in the wake of his death from cancer at age 71. I talk to you everyday Bobby and I know you hear me. You touch me. I have tried to live the way you taught me. She wrote that Gary knows and respects her love story with Bobby, and even credited her late husband with bringing Gary into her life. 13 Jill, who appeared on the first four seasons of the Bravo reality show before returning as a guest in season 11, shared a photo of Bobby to Instagram, along with a call for donations to MSK and MD Andersen in memory of her late spouse. Why does it take him dying for us to learn the lessons he taught us all. "I finally learned to close doors , turn off lights, check the car before I get out and all the other little things he tried to get me to do while he was here. I have Jill Zarin Clocks now! To always do the right thing no matter what or how hard it can be sometimes."photosCelebrity Deaths: 2021's Fallen StarsThe furniture designer continued, writing, "I promised you when you turn around I will be there because heaven doesn't have clocks ( oh ..